This year’s Christmas truly a celebration with family and I will say the meaningful Christmas that I ever had, so far.
This is the first Christmas that I am a certified MRS & celebrated it with my own family – Yoanna & my dear husband.
This is the first Christmas that I didn’t look forward for a drinking party with colleagues/friends rather a dinner with the family.
This is the first Christmas that I & my friends weren’t discussing about parties & out-of-town trips, rather a celebration with our own family.
This is the first Christmas that reminds me how great God is for giving me such wonderful friends.
This is the first Christmas that I felt joy & blessed not because of those gifts under the tree but because of the people joining me in opening those gifts.
My parents-in-law arrived around lunch time of the 23rd. It was their first time to see the house & so far, they like it. I felt
relief when my husband’s mother told me that the house is beautiful. Then we woke up early morning of the 24. I & my husband did the last minute grocery while Yoanna stayed home with her grandparents. She built her first ginger bread house. The whole day of 24 was preparation for the 10pm Christmas Eve dinner. My husband did the major cooking while I prepared the starter – my own version of strawberry dip in white & dark chocolates.
Our guests are Filipino-Americans, so our menu was composed of Pansit (Rice Sticks), Ham, Turkey, Chicken Adobo, Potato Salad, Lumpia (Egg Roll), Fruit Salad & Strawberry Cheesecake for the dessert. We invited Daniel, my husband’s officemate & a
retired US Navy who recently got married with a Filipina. He confirmed & informed us that he will bring his 19-yr grandson with him. A total of 8-pax dinner, excluding Yoanna. Around 9pm when the fil-am couple (with grandson) told us that they can’t make it to the dinner for some reason. Pretty disappointing but anyway, it’s their lost of not to enjoy such meal. So, I removed some plates in the table & gave us enough space for the food.
To add more spirit of Christmas in our dinning area, I displayed the greeting cards we received this year. I bought this dried flowers with Christmas ornaments in Wal-Mart & set it in nice glassware with a white candle in the middle. Tied a Christmas ribbon & viola, I have a Christmas-table centerpiece. We purchased a light colored table cloth (with napkin). That brought out a light impression since the dinning table/chairs are in dark brown color. Then, we found this nice white dinner-set for 8 people with gold lining – complete with its silverware. Finally, I put those wine glasses. Honestly, it wasn’t an expensive table setting but it looks elegant. To completely enjoy the Christmas Eve dinner, I let my laptop played the Christmas songs.
It was a great dinner!



We skipped the traditional 12′o clock gift opening. Instead, we did it in early morning of 25th. In such way, Yoanna was able to join us & it’s the whole family who opened those gifts. Then we had Christmas lunch at home & went out around 1:30pm to watch “National Treasure”. The whole family enjoyed the movie though Yoanna fell asleep inside the theater for some minutes. The theater was full with families & it felt great hearing some screams in every suspense scenes.

(Yoanna opening her gifts)

(Yoanna watching “National Treasure”)
We arrived home late afternoon. I stayed in the room for a while & called some family & friends in Philippines. I’m in teary eyes when I finished my phone brigade. My last call was “somehow” emotional. I called Riz who was in the hospital taking her duty – to stay with her mom, recovering from an operation. She told me that it’s her turn to be there on the evening of 25th until morning of 26th.
The past week was stressful for me. Not just for the Christmas preparation but knowing a special person diagnosed a stage 4 cancer. It was a VERY unexpected news & a very untimely event. Though as Christmas day approaches I realized why things need to be in such way. Not many people knew but Riz’ mom done a lot of things to me. She was very considerate during the times I was down. She was also happy whenever good things come on my way. I was there when she usually celebrate having a great deal in business. I was also there when she experienced some family problem. I was “somehow” part of the family.

I had some minute with her in the phone. It was the first time that I told her how much she mean to me – to us. She was truly an ICON to us. I’m praying for her recovery & chance to live more. I want her to witness how I live my new life, so she will see how I admire her in balancing family-career life & still fabulous!
I love you Auntie Sally & we’re praying for you.
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